Hi ender,
Just for the benefit of others that might read your post, CUDA is a (rather contrived) acronym that stands for Compute Unified Device Architecture. It is an architecture developed by NVIDIA for its more recent graphics cards (i.e. an engine) and applications written in certain programming languages such as Java and PERL can access this engine. This means that the can access the graphics card's processing power to speed up their particular application.
Your card, the geForce 8400M GS, actually supports CUDA, so (bearing in mind that you have the latest driver installed) Total Video Converter should allow you to tick the "enable" box. I have two thoughts about why it might not allow you to do this:
1. CUDA-enabled apps require at least 256 MB dedicated VRAM (i.e. not shared with system RAM)
2. The "M" in 8400M GS denotes that you have a laptop, and I know from experience that the mobile versions of a particular GPU type don't always fully correspond with the desktop PC plug-in cards. It may just be a matter of incompatibility. Good luck with getting to the bottom of this.
ornithos